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In other words, the number of men who are taller, smarter, richer, is going to be a small fraction of the population. You may want these alpha male studs, but these alpha male studs often prefer women who are less busy, more available, less critical, and lower maintenance. What happens when you catch one of these Bill Clinton/Tiger Woods type men? It’s a completely different energy from your ability to slay dragons in the workplace.
Well, consider the personality type of a guy who is busy, driven, and wealthy. If you’re a woman who doesn’t consider herself an ambitious, intense CEO type, it will be far easier for you to land one of these men, because you offer a complementary feminine energy to his masculine energy. But I’m telling you, after 8 years of coaching, I’ve become convinced that people don’t change.
Over and over, you plug away, trying to make things work, even though it should be readily apparent by now: there’s not necessarily something wrong with YOU, nor is every man in your life fatally flawed. Two great ingredients don’t necessarily taste good together. So what we’re here to do is try to reduce this to a simple science, finding a man who’s not just a great guy, but finding a man who’s a great fit for your life.
That may sound a little cold and cerebral to you, but I hate to tell you, following your heart has caused pretty much all of your relationship troubles.
I am FINALLY going to do the “right” thing and be alone and figure out my own head first.
When we think of couples going through "an ugly divorce," people often assume that if one side is being an emotional bully, it's the Honestly, I thought that, too, until one of my male family members went through a divorce years ago. We all believe we're in the right by default, but are you? To clarify, this is one of the cruelest and most vicious ex-wife bully tactics.
But outside of that, deciding to not let your ex see the children because you're mad at him—because he has a new girlfriend, or gave the kids junk food, or said something unkind to you—is NOT a reason to keep your children from their father. In other words, moms not honoring court ordered visitation is a significantly BIGGER problem (3 times bigger, actually) than dads not honoring court ordered child support.
If love is blind, it’s my job to take the blinders off and let you know how to make slight adjustments that will lead you to greater happiness.
And let me be the first to tell you, greater happiness doesn’t rest in choosing a guy who’s just like you.